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Feminist theory rarely lets men describe their experience without accusing them of defending privilege. This selection joins women who stepped outside that script with men who study discrimination, boys’ education, and the price of the male role.

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Cover of «Self-Made Man»
Norah Vincent

Self-Made Man

Eighteen months living as a man, covering friendship, dating, work, social expectations, and psychological pressure.

Cover of «The Will to Change»
bell hooks

The Will to Change

The male role deprives men of emotional language, intimacy, and available support.

Cover of «Communion»
bell hooks

Communion

Women can love badly too: care can become control, independence does not create intimacy, and a man should not be punished for the vulnerability he was asked to show.

Cover of «Unhooked»
Laura Sessions Stepp

Unhooked

Young women helped build sex without commitment: choosing became easier, attachment became risky, and men could become disposable too.

Cover of «What About Men?»
Caitlin Moran

What About Men?

A contemporary feminist recognizes male problems without relying on collective guilt.

Cover of «What Do Men Want?»
Nina Power

What Do Men Want?

A philosophical account of masculine discontent and the collapse of a legible male role.

Cover of «Free Women, Free Men»
Camille Paglia

Free Women, Free Men

Freedom means responsibility. Paglia attacks victimhood, credits male achievement, and argues that strong women gain nothing from weakening men.

Cover of «Men on Strike»
Helen Smith

Men on Strike

Men withdraw from marriage, fatherhood, and traditional careers when duties remain but rights and rewards disappear.

Cover of «Manning Up»
Kay Hymowitz

Manning Up

Delayed male adulthood and the loss of a clear passage from youth to responsibility.

Cover of «Stiffed»
Susan Faludi

Stiffed

Economy and culture strip men of provider status, dignity in work, and a sense of being needed.

Cover of «T: The Story of Testosterone»
Carole Hooven

T: The Story of Testosterone

Testosterone, male behavior, and biological differences that ideology reduces to socialization.

Cover of «Save the Males»
Kathleen Parker

Save the Males

A defense of men's importance to family and society in a culture that discusses them chiefly as a problem.

Cover of «The End of Men»
Hanna Rosin

The End of Men

Work and education became better fitted to women, making the old picture of male advantage obsolete.

Cover of «Feminism Against Progress»
Mary Harrington

Feminism Against Progress

The price technological and social change imposes on family, relationships, and motherhood.

Cover of «Heterophobia»
Daphne Patai

Heterophobia

Patai puts the accused man back in the frame: facts, due process, and one rule for both sexes.

Cover of «The Case Against the Sexual Revolution»
Louise Perry

The Case Against the Sexual Revolution

Sex without obligation especially suits the person who plans to avoid responsibility. Perry brings reputation, monogamy, and marriage back into the argument.

Cover of «Are Men Obsolete?»
Hanna Rosin, Maureen Dowd, Caitlin Moran, Camille Paglia

Are Men Obsolete?

Four women debate whether men are obsolete. The argument runs through work, education, family, and the search for a new male role.

Cover of «The Women and Men of 1926»
Sue Bruley

The Women and Men of 1926

A mining family as a labour contract: he provided and paid in physical risk, she ran the home. After defeat, women helped preserve male status too.

Cover of «Household Accounts»
Susan Porter Benson

Household Accounts

Who earned, who held the purse, who kept personal money, and who paid the bills were different questions inside interwar working-class families.

Cover of «Of Boys and Men»
Richard Reeves

Of Boys and Men

The crisis of boys and men in education, family, work, and the search for a new role.

Cover of «The Myth of Male Power»
Warren Farrell

The Myth of Male Power

Hidden costs of the male role, the price of “male power,” and male disposability.

Cover of «The Boy Crisis»
Warren Farrell and John Gray

The Boy Crisis

Why boys are struggling and what must be done to reverse the crisis.

Cover of «Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say»
Warren Farrell

Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say

Male emotional life, communication, and mutual misunderstanding between the sexes.

Cover of «The Second Sexism»
David Benatar

The Second Sexism

A philosophical analysis of discrimination against men and boys.

Cover of «The Hazards of Being Male»
Herb Goldberg

The Hazards of Being Male

The psychological price of the traditional male role and the myth of male privilege.

Cover of «Spreading Misandry»
Paul Nathanson and Katherine Young

Spreading Misandry

An investigation of the image of men in modern popular culture.

Cover of «Legalizing Misandry»
Paul Nathanson and Katherine Young

Legalizing Misandry

How contempt for men moves from culture into public institutions.

Cover of «Woman: A Textbook for Men»
Oleg Novoselov

Woman: A Textbook for Men

A male account of relations between the sexes through evolutionary psychology, ethology, and reproductive strategy.

Cover of «The Revolution of Man»
Phil Barker

The Revolution of Man

Male crisis, suicide, fatherhood, and the Man Box. Barker sees male pain clearly, then too often tells the man to fix himself.

Cover of «No More Sex War»
Neil Lyndon

No More Sex War

A critique of the confrontational model of relations between men and women.

Cover of «Iron John»
Robert Bly

Iron John

Male maturity, initiation, and the search for an adult identity.

Cover of «Real Boys»
William Pollack

Real Boys

Raising boys and the consequences of banning male emotional expression.

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